🔥Meet Mr. Aries and Ms. Capricorn♑️
“I love you, but I’m leaving.” Ms. Capricorn said with the most matter of fact blank face stare you’ve ever seen in your life. 😐 “I flew all the way out here to be with you and this is the thanks I get!?” Mr. Aries replied totally dumbfounded at how he ended up here in the first place. 😕 And let me tell you I’ve counseled hundreds of couples from all around the world and when I heard that myself, I was just as dumbfounded as Mr. Aries. This is a client story of what NOT to do at the beginning of your relationship…♈Mr. Aries is your stereotypical West Coast dreamer. He lives by the beach, enjoys surfing and the nightlife. He lives life one day at a time. Without a care in the world. He shares an apartment with his 2 best friends who enjoy a similar lifestyle.♑ Ms. Capricorn is an East Coast lady, much more organized and structured. She’s career oriented and rigid. She too enjoys hanging out and partying though she doesn’t surf. But she enjoys the nightlife and hanging out with her girls until late hours.“ Work hard, play hard” is her motto. 💃 Their paths crossed while she was at a strenuous point in her life though. She had just lost her job. 😔 During those trying times her friends convinced her to go on a girls trip. And where did they end up…you guessed it, the West Coast, Los Angeles. |
✨Sparks Fly, but Challenges Loom ⚡️
To hear them tell the story, it was love at first sight. They locked eyes at a bar on the beach and didn’t leave each other’s side all night. 😍
That all night turned into all month. Then 3 months.
So as you can see, Ms. Capricorn didn’t go back to NY with her girls at the end of the week.
Nope, she stayed and moved in with Mr. Aries and his friends. Now this blew everyone’s mind!
Not Ms. Capricorn…not Ms. Independent borderline feminist! Suddenly living with 3 guys…woah!
But it was true, it happened. But it wasn’t all peaches and cream. She still infatuated Mr. Aries, but not his friends. Ms. Capricorn went in there running the house and that did not sit well with them. So that arrangement didn’t last long at all, needless to say. 😔 After a few months, she finally moved out and back home to New York City. She was tired of arguing with his friends/roommates everyday. And he was tired of defending all of them and having to choose sides everyday. 😒 They kept in touch though, facetimed each other multiple times throughout the day. But the theme soon became obvious. She wanted Mr. Aries with her. |
They missed each other. And sped up by the fact that she was constantly in Mr. Aries ear telling him it was time. It was time to “grow up” and move out on his own. Maybe they can get a place together. 💡 So that’s what they did. They got their first place together, back on the East Coast. Mr. Aries is out of his element. He had no friends in NYC, all of his family and friends were in LA. and on the west coast. 😕 But he was in love, or so he thought, so he packed up his gear like that old Isaac Hayes song, “By the time I get to Phoenix”… But Mr. Aries is an Aries, he doesn’t mind adventure. That’s part of his life energy. So it wasn’t as big of a deal to him as it was to his friends and family. That still doesn’t like her till this day. 😤 But here comes the first major hurdle of their relationship. During the time that Mr. Aries was planning on moving to NY to live with Ms. Capricorn. She had already planned another girls trip with her friends. ✌️ So about a month after he arrived, she would be leaving for a few weeks to go out of the country. Now what should she do? What would you do? |